Friday, January 21, 2011

Strengths and weakness

Ever wonder... from where do the people around you draw their strength? Other people? Prosperity?  Places? Faith or prayer? 

What do you suppose might happen if that source of power is removed? I.e.,what - or who - is their weakness? 
 
Scarlett had her Tara.
Achilles had his heel.

Figure out who or what has power over them, the power to humble them, and there you have it.  You can open any door if only you have the right key. 



The Bottom Line: Knowing the source of strength or weakness is the key that will open the door to your character. Guaranteed.   

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Where have all the statesmen gone?

In the wake of the Tuscon shootings, looks like Sarah Palin took a hit.
She stood by her crosshairs. Now it's her supporters who have run for cover.

Mrs. Palin gambled. She lost.

That's what makes a great character. A statesman, fit for national public office?
Time well tell. 

The Bottom Line:  Drama is good. Especially in politics.

In leadership, perhaps humility is better.

AL

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Stop! or I'll keep going...

Sometimes the smallest things stop me. I'm a writer first, so procrastinating comes easy. 

My morning exercise is delayed because my headphones went missing. Then the dog came in the house with muddy paws. This morning's pages get put off because my pen is M.I.A.

Not a pen, mind you - THE pen. The one I scribbled with last night, when I woke up with a whole new Act Three resolution in my head. The one whose ink flowed so open and freely that my thoughts, too, whizzed miraculously across the page.

Never mind that I write mostly on, uhm, a keyboard.

Amid all this talk of action, and its motivation, which is essentially the point of this blog, it feels prudent to pause, to give some cred to the why nots.

Why won't she tell the man she loves what she's really thinking or feeling? Why doesn't he call?

The Bottom Line: Freud nailed it.

If Love brings out our Inner Hero, i.e, causes me to make the sacrifice, take the bullet for my valentine, or prompts him to make that call... the one that will stop her from getting on the plane... then perhaps its nemesis, Inertia, too can also be boiled down to one thing: Fear.

Beyond that, the devil, as they say, is in the details.

Sunday, January 16, 2011

As a matter of fact, words do matter... or don't they?

It was a bright and sunny day.
A woman addressed a crowd.
A man pulled a gun.
The woman fell down, silenced.

Seven others followed. Everyone left standing ran. Some, screaming.

The woman is now in the hospital. The man is now in jail.

The woman now clinging to life is Congresswoman. She can no longer speak. 
The man is a local student... a malcontent, to say the least. He can speak, but refuses.

Soon we learn that the Congresswoman was afraid of being shot. She had good reason: She had been threatened before. Her office had, in fact, been vandalized... recently. With a gun.

She wrote to a colleague, confessed her fears... about divisive political rhetoric - "hate speech"- among peers and constituents. How to curb it? What could be done? 

Who, if anyone, responded? Does it matter?

Meanwhile, a deranged student bought a gun.

What did he say to the dealer who sold him a semi-automatic weapon... one so feared, that it was outlawed in the US... until 2004. Does it matter?

Do words matter?

When I was a kid, a young man, also a student, also a malcontent, offed himself. 
His parents blamed his penchant for Ozzy Osbourne records. 

In the wake of his death, a local pastor staged a bonfire. He called upon parents to burn books, albums and other  materials deemed "offensive to God." 

Parents and elders came. Teen and 'tweens were dragged along. 

I was lucky. My parents thought this behavior was odd, even for religious folk. After all, WE were religious folk. 

My sister had an Ozzy Osbourne record. No one insisted, but... she threw it out anyway.

Curious, I snuck outside. I dug the album out of the trash bin, with the tenacity of a bird dog. 
I looked for the words, the ones behind the fuss. I found them. I hid the record in the garage until morning.

After school the next day, I slipped the contraband out of my bookbag, and showed it to a friend. He also liked Ozzy records.

I pointed out the offending song title: Suicide Solution.  "It's about alcohol..." he said, rather flatly, swirling his index finger around in a circle, as if stirring an imaginary glass. "A warning," he intoned, as only a high school senior can. "If you drink too much of it, you can die."

All that wax, gone to waste.

Can mere words incite violence? Maybe not for the sane...

Words do matter. They mattered greatly in Rwanda, where government radio broadcasts incited genocide, even murder against rival Tutsi "cockroaches."
They mattered when General Dallaire pled to the United Nations leadership for "guidance." And their absence mattered greatly when the UN refused to respond. 

That said... words alone do not kill. People kill. They do not necessarily need guns to do it.

I borrowed the below quote from Robert Edsel's insightful blog post, dated 2009... just 2 weeks after the eighth anniversary of the 9/11 attacks:

German poet Heinrich Heine said: “Das war ein Vorspiel nur, dort wo man Bucher verbrennt, verbreent man auch am Ende Menschen.” (“This was only foreplay. Where books are being burned there will eventually be humans burned.”)


Of course, the gap between burning books out of fear and ideology and taking human lives is thinner than any of us want to consider. The importance of Heine’s observation is timeless:  they are words of warning to us all…to pay attention…to think for ourselves, and to speak up and act when the very freedoms all people of good will cherish are under attack.

Kinda makes you rethink Mrs. Palin's special brand of political humor, now that a Democratic Congresswoman has ended up in the cross-hairs for real, doesn't it?

Sarah Palin's website literally put crosshairs on Gabrielle Giffords and 19 other congress members

One can only hope so.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Happy V-Day! An early gift for you: Flanders article on "why murder is a spectator sport."

As my VIEW changes, due to the move - due to the flooding - I am once again short on space, and face time with my pc. No time to whine, or ramble, as I have no time to kill.

Today I offer you, instead, a link to an article on murder, and story. I found it terribly inspiring.

One of my New year's resolutions is to think less; ACT more. 

I.e., Note really think less. Analyze less. Obssess less. Use what I know. Explore what I don't.
 
You know, SHIP more. 

If the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior, then I expect that reading this will inspire someone to write. That is, put fingers on the keyboard and type.

Hey - What do you know- I was right!  

In her article, Judith Flanders waxes poetic on why some stories are inherently more interesting than others. "Murder, at a distance," she writes, is "a spectator sport."

If you were diligent - or just plain curious- enough to follow me here, then I hope you, too will find it inspiring enough to act as well. Then both our efforts will be rewarded. How cool would that be?

by Judith Flanders

Happy reading!

love, 
AL